- I'm 23 years old
- Who do I prefer:
- I prefer male
- Iris tone:
- Warm gray-blue eyes
- My favourite drink:
- I like mulled wine
- I like tattoo:
Having a crush on someone is one of the most beautiful feelings in the world.
How to know if a girl has a crush on you
Hey girl. I see you, crushing on your lesbian friend. Crushing on a woman can be amazing, and sexuality is fluid, so it's pretty common for anyone — no matter where they fall on the sexuality spectrum — to feel attraction toward someone of the same gender.
As a lesbian myself, I know how hard it can be for another lesbian to tell if a straight girl is falling for you. But if you realize you have a crush on a girl even though you've always identified as straight, these feelings are worth exploring. If you start seeing s you have a crush on another womanembrace it! But before you run up to her and confess your feelings, take a peek at the following eight things to better understand your feelings and the impact they could have on your relationship.
Otherwise, you might risk ruining your friendship, or worse, really hurting your friend. A few years ago, a friend pushed me up against a wall while she was blackout drunk and stuck her tongue down my throat. I pushed her away and said, "Girl, what are you doing? This is when I had a huge realization: Some not all straight girls think all lesbians are most definitely attracted to them.
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You just might not be her type. And with any crush on any gender, you might have to accept they just don't have the hots for you.
Getting your heart crushed by a straight girl is a brutal sting that leaves scars. Others are neutral about it, and still others will run. Whatever the case may be, understand she might not want to put her heart on the line. And if so, respect her decision and try your best to move on. One time, even I the gayest gay on the block had a crush on a boy.
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The moment I realized it was nothing more than deep admiration for his personality was when I tried to sexually fantasize about him. Before telling your crush you like her, try to understand your own attraction to her. The line between admiration and lust is pretty thin. You feel an inexplicable desire to touch them, or maybe even fantasize about kissing them.
That's attraction. Take time to get to know your body, what turns you on, what your ultimate fantasies or kinks may be. Maybe women play a larger role in your overall sexuality than you initially realized, and it took developing feelings for this one woman to finally appreciate that. Always do you, uninhibited by pressures or precedents.
I can't tell you how many times straight girls have told me they have a crush on their lesbian co-worker. Does she have a girlfriend? I hadn't thought about that.
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Before you go any further, make sure she's single. If she has a girlfriend, respect that and move on. I know it sounds simple, but I've seen it happen too many times with my own two jaded, lesbian eyes!
If you're just experimenting, make sure she knows that and is OK with that. If you've dutifully thought about all the things on this list, and you're still teeming with desire for your lesbian crush, ask yourself this: Are you prepared to lose the friendship?
When you confess having feelings for a friend, things can get weird — no matter their gender or sexuality. And while I don't advocate for holding feelings in, you do have to know what you could possibly lose by being honest. They might feel awkward around you and choose not to be your friend anymore. Be as honest with yourself as you can, and try not to put too much pressure on yourself.
When all is said and done, you could have the best love of your life, really great sex, or you could open up a part of yourself you never knew existed. Ruth Schwartz, Ph. This article was originally published on Single Life. Updated: June 3, Originally Published: Jan. Search Close.